Did trouble in your paradise kick in right before valentine’s day? Oh! Poor thing, seems like you have upset cupid and you may have to spend the most romantic day of the year ‘alone’.
Whatever type of relationship you have, fights are pretty normal things and not every fight means the end of the relationship. There are always silly disputes that every couple fights over, saying things that hurt and them ghosting each other. So, you had a fight, but is there anything that can not be sorted in this season of love and romance? Singles have a habit to survive V-Day alone, but for someone like you, who have just had a big fight with their partner, may not be a pro for such a task.
Well, you both just had a fight, though big one, but there is still a ray of hope that things can be mended. I mean patching up is far better than ending up single when this close to valentine’s day, right? With whom you will be sharing your Valentines Day cake? Trust me, the cake will not feel the same as it would by sharing it with your partner. To be honest, issues can and go, but valentine’s day comes once a year, so, it is certainly the bigger event here making it totally worth patching up. Here are some ways how you can patch things up with your sweetheart before valentine’s day so you have someone to share the feeling of love.
Stop Giving Cold Shoulder
Okay, when you really want any fight to end, the first step you need to do is stop giving each other a cold shoulder. How you can expect things to get better when you are still giving each other a cold shoulder. Of course if you are the one who has to stop ignoring or brushing off your partner. This will only push them to hold the grudges against you and will make their decision even stronger. So, at least give them a vibe that you are ready to talk out.
Send Gift Of Love
If you are someone who is bad with words or bitter tongue just make the situation worse, it’s better that you replace words with something else. How about a gift? Eventually you were going to buy a Valentines Day gift for him or her, right? So, putting in efforts to send one prior just to keep a person in your life would be ideal too. You can take the help of a simple flower bouquet with a handwritten note. Its not going to make you smaller, but the more mature one who knows that no fight is worth spending valentine’s day single.
Focus On The Solution
When you finally find a window to talk to them, make sure that your focus is on finding the solution to the problem. Most couples keep on discussing the problem again and again but no one thinks about the solution. Be smart and put up the question ‘how can we fix it?’. This will show your partner that you are willing to work on it. But be careful, don’t just go on to cut them in between when they are saying something, that is going to make the situation worse. Listen once and then come to the solution part.
Show The Picture Of Loneliness
If you are going to end up single on valentine’s day, so will they (unless, they haven’t found a replacement). Show them a picture of how lonely v-day is going to be, without any love. So, Remind him or her that this is only a bump in the road.
These are some ways how you can patch things up after a big fight right before valentine’s day.
