You think getting over someone is the toughest task? Well, have you been forced to wake up everyday in those spine chilling wintery mornings and put up a smiling face for straight 8 hours in your office? Try that! Now, coming back to your struggle, I think getting over someone you love, is nothing less than a slow death. You already know that person is so toxic for you and for your mental health yet you want to be with them. Isn’t it just like smoking cigarettes knowing that it will get you nothing but cancer?
However, it is never too late to do the right thing. If you have made up your mind to get over that blood-sucking person whom you love and not having any reason for doing so, congratulations, we are here to suck the venom out of your body. Order flowers online and have a fresh start from today! Here are some expert tips that will help you get over that person but remember, it is you who has to sail the ship, the article would just be the winds giving you the right push. So, aye aye captain, let’s get started!
Cry It Out:
Yes, grieving is the foremost step that leads to getting over someone. You think I’m crazy, don’t you? But believe me, it is okay to cry at night or in front of someone you feel comfortable with. Just as your tears will start to dry up, a portion of your love for them will too start to dry up. Now, you should not get crying confused with a constant practice of sobbing. It is only necessary to let your feelings out with your tears sweetheart.
Distance Yourself:
Oh, I hate to pop this bubble for you but you being in touch with them especially in the initial stage of moving on, won’t get you anywhere! No matter how hard you try to get over them or as soon as you start to believe that you are getting over them, beep! Flashes their single message and you are already drawing in all those feelings again. So, you need to block them from every possible social media account and in the physical world too. Have a practical experimentation and you will see the difference.
Focus On Yourself:
You must be always wondering what is this fuss about loving yourself first, right? Well, it is an easy concept of making yourself happy as you are solely responsible for it. You should focus on things that make you happy. What did you get in return while you were all busy making that person happy? Umm, let me guess! A heartbreak? So, it is a wake up call for you to start prioritizing your happiness over others but that reminds me to tell you that making yourself happy doesn’t mean you have to become an insensitive or an inconsiderate person. Get online flower delivery for yourself and treat yourself right!
Don’t Fall For The “Sorry” Disguised Trap:
Oh Crap! It is the same trap that you have already fallen for in the past. As soon as that toxic person starts realising that you are moving away from them, they will play the “Sorry card” followed by “I will make things better.” But you are backed by a wise person (that would be me). Never ever accept an unfelt apology, it will only make things worse for you.
Never Blame “Love” For It:
Hey, love is a wonderful thing that could happen to anyone. Don’t blame it on love if that jerk has given you a tough time hiding behind the fake wall of love they created for you. It never was love in the first place if that person happens to hurt you time and again. So, moving over that person without becoming hopeless of love is the wisest thing that you should be doing right now. It might take some time, but it will happen to you again with the right person and at the right time.
It is time you stop blaming yourself for their stupidity or thinking where it went wrong. It was wrong in the first place, you just couldn’t see through it. Get over them and welcome the unseen opportunities in your life that are already knocking on your door.
