You met someone, felt the spark and connection, started dating, and now you two seem inseparable. Now, the more time you spend together, the connection gets stronger. At some point of time, you might wonder if you are sure about getting married, right? Since marriage is a beautiful phenomenon yet requires the perfect timing for it, it is often recommended to have a smart look at our relationship before taking the big step. When you go through for anniversary gifts online for your dear ones, you know the couple quite personally, right? Their likes and dislikes and how they would feel upon receiving the gift from you. Likewise, you should be well aware about your would-be partner’s personality and then decide if you are ready to get married or not. Here I have penned down some signs that will help you make a decision.
Share Similar Values:
It is the shared values that make any connection between a couple, friends or even family, much stronger. Shared values eventually lead to a sustainable relationship for years and after. However, it is not important that every value that you hold should be held by your partner. They have their own set of values right? It is the basic and common life values that you should hold in common and the rest of it will fall in place.
Mature Level:
Getting engaged or getting married is a big step. I believe that a certain point of maturity is required to be able to get into such a relationship for your lifetime. Honestly speaking, there is no perfect age to get married, rather, it is the level of maturity that one attains that is required for getting married. So, if you both are mature enough for each other, you are good to go.
Open For Every Conversation:
We all know that communication is the key to an ever-lasting relationship. However, I personally believe that a couple should be open for every conversation with each other. Be it their finances, past life, or it could be sharing their poop type. That’s what makes a relationship unbreakable. If you share such a relationship with your partner, there ain’t anything that would stop you both from cutting your anniversary cake till your hair turns grey.
Financially Stable:
If you are head over heels in love with your partner, it is natural that you might want to get married to them without considering many aspects, right? However, there is this one aspect that you should never avoid, I repeat, “Never.” You both should be financially stable before getting into a relationship where you both have to take care of various things mutually.
Endure Future Problems Together:
Falling in love is easy, getting married is easy, living together is easy. What is not so easy here is the determination to face life challenges. You should be super sure that your partner will stand by your side when you both face any challenge in life. If you are sure, they have a strong will for it, go for it.
Grow Together:
Most importantly, you and your partner should push each other to grow in each phase of life. Be it financial growth, spiritual growth, mental growth or anything, your partner should be your driving force and so you should be theirs.
By now, you must have come to the conclusion about being sure of taking the big step right? Talk to yourself throughout and with your partner, and if you think you are ready for it, I will wait for my invitation to your wedding for sure!
